(Have
you heard of “Ode to the Nice Guys”? Well this is…)
For the Nice Girls
This is a tribute to the
nice girls. The nice girls made of sugar
and spice, who always get overlooked, and who sit and
endure endless ranting about the psycho-bitch stalker sluts men are wasting
their time with, all the while embodying an angelic, classy exterior that is
underrated. This is dedicated to the
girls who pick up the phone at
This is for all the girls
who have been told, “you’re the type of girl guys want
to marry”, and who spend their Friday nights alone (or with other nice girls)
because they don’t put out on the first date.
This is for the girls who possess all of the qualities of a kick-ass
girlfriend, but never get the time of day.
This is for all of the girls who are unappreciated, but still
unselfishly give their time and effort, go to great lengths to please others,
and continue to genuinely care about other people’s feelings (even if they are
assholes). This is for the ladies who are called prude because they would rather spoon
than lick balls. For all the girls who
are cast to the side, sit out the slow dances, and confidently go stag to
social events, this is for you.
This is for the time you
had to work at
Nice girls don’t get the attention they deserve. We like sports, we like to get rough and
dirty, we don’t ask you 100 times if you think we’re
fat, and we don’t complain while you munch down four cheeseburgers as we enjoy
our salad and water. Even more
surprising, nice girls don’t get asked out as much as
they should. We don’t
expect anything fancy, I mean you can save that $40 you spent taking some whore
out to dinner just so you could secure some booty time for desert and use it to
rent a video and buy us some flowers. I
wish I could explain this, but the only conclusion I can come up with is guys are image-whores who just want a hot piece of ass and
to uphold a badass reputation. Many of them claim they want a girl they
can take home to Mom, but when faced with such a lucky find they say absurd,
illogical things such as “Oh, she’s out of my league”, “The timing is off”, or
“She’s not my type”. I’m
sorry, but these conceited jerks I just have no tolerance for. There is no connection between what they say
(“I don’t want to wake-up next to a stranger”) and what they do (“Who the fuck
is this naked woman in my bed?”).
Furthermore, they comment on the lack of women who possess the
full-package that are still available as they continue to sleep around with any
hoe-bag with a short skirt, blonde streaks, wide-open legs, and even
wider-opened mouths. But
one thing I will say is this does not last forever. Eventually the boys get tired of fucking the
high-school/college dropout with STDs and illegitimate children, and that’s when they will be begging to tap the tight nice
girls’ asses. The hard part is sorting
out the loser guys from the ones who didn’t have to
sleep with 25 girls to realize what they actually want in a woman and then
making sure they aren’t involved with the very psycho-bitches that give us nice
girls a bad rep.
So until these men
realize what they are missing, until they actually grow big enough balls to go
for the nice girls, until they are ready to get more from a relationship than
blow jobs and booty calls, and until they have the intelligence to give us
exactly what we need, I propose a toast to all the nice ladies. You know who you are, and I know you are sick
of hearing you have to be patient and keeping waiting until what’s
meant to happen will happen. But the truth is, the world needs your long comforting
talks, your insightful suggestions, your pleasantly optimistic perspective, and
your tendency to let the men act like heroes and take the credit while you sit
in the background as the ditzy damsel who has so much more than what meets the
eye. For all the crazy, immature,
ill-witted things you fathom, for all the situations where your infallible
performance is unacknowledged, and for the endless nights you spend trying to
improve someone else’s life instead of your own, my gratitude and appreciation
go out to you. You do have infinite,
priceless, goddess qualities and our sovereignty and absolution is coming.