I should not be writing this.  I know that.  I would be a fool if I didn't.  But I cannot bear to hold it all inside a moment longer.  Most things...most things I could.  In this case, I don't have a prayer.  This isn't even something I could tell a priest, for fear that I would cause the death of an innocent man of God whose only crime would be to hear the confession of a woman who desperately needs to speak.  If I cannot confess to a man of God, at least I can confess to God himself and my descendants, if I ever manage to have any, and if this book and this ship survive our travels and adventures -- if humanity survives this war we're fighting.  I don't know if that's possible.
    I know too much.  I daresay I know more than most intelligence officers about certain subjects, but only because of my sources.  I shall try not to name names in order to incriminate no one conclusively, but I fear that if this text is ever found, then we will all be lost for certain in any event.
    We're fighting a people called the Zentraedi, out here in space.  Some of us think that the reason we're being attacked is because of this ship, the SDF-1.  They want it, for some reason, we're not quite sure why.  I'm not sure I want to know.  Then again, I know a lot of things that I never really wanted or needed to know.  My world has been shattered by this knowledge, and I now struggle to put it all back together again, piecing together a new world and a new life for myself with the knowledge I've attained.  It's so hard, sometimes.  I feel so lucky that I have friends who can help me through all of this -- friends who can actually know what I know, and some of them, at least, can, and do.
    I know so much, and yet I cannot say what it is.  So hard...
    I feel that I am falling in love and I'm unable to stop it from happening.  I've never felt so helpless, so out of control, in all of my life.  It's disconcerting.  But...he knows me, for who I am, for who I've always been.  And to me...to a degree, he's an open book for me -- sometimes.  I don't pry, though.  It's not my place.  But I think I'm falling...and I don't know if I'm going to learn to fly before I hit the bottom.  I just have to hope, and pray.
    I pray that in falling, I learn to fly.

    My world keeps changing, rearranging, more complicated every day.  It's fascinating and terrifying at the same time.
    I'm falling so fast, I keep wondering when I'm going to hit bottom.
    The dreams I have are terrifying.  I swear that I saw my own death the last time I dreamed, a death that was avoided, thank God, but one that may not have been had I not known.  By the heavens around me, I might have died in one brief flare of light, and then where would everyone have been?
    I've said not a word about what I saw.  It's better that way.  Better that people not need to know what it is I've seen.
    The wonders and horrors I've seen.
    I keep fearing that when we finally make it back to Earth, there will be no Earth to return to -- not the Earth we knew and remembered, but a barren, wind-swept field of pain and hurt and despair.
    I think about my family daily, and each day pray that they are safe and well.  Every day, though, my hopes for seeing them again die a little more, bit by bit.  I can never go home again.  Too much has changed.
    None of us can ever go home again.  All we can do now is live and hope to make a new home wherever we are, with whomever we're with.  If that is our fate, then that is our fate.  And I'll be damned if I let anyone destroy my home.

    I've finally figured out why I am the way I am -- why people think of me the way they do.  It's a defense mechanism, my cold, nasty exterior is.  A defense mechanism to prevent me from getting too close to anyone.  Because when you get right down to it, you never know who'll be next to show up on the operating table, and it's always harder to handle it when it's your friend.
    Hell.  I let my guard down once, and look what happened.  I went and fell in love.  Funny, that, and sad.  How many chances have I let slip through my fingers because all I've ever done is pushed people away?
    Maybe I finally have a chance, knowing now what I know, to fix it all.  I can let people in -- losing them will hurt, and I know that now, but I have to wonder whether the times I spend with them now will make up for the pain of their loss.  I guess I'll never really know.  What I know now is that I've been offered a chance by the powers that be to open up to the rest of the world, to allow myself to feel something.  And I think maybe I'll finally be able to take that chance.
    I'm stronger now.  I wonder how strong I can be.

    I almost lost him.  I don't know what I would have done if I had.  He means the world to me, and I don't know if I could've gone on without him.  I just don't know.  He and I are going to have a family someday, and someday soon.  Hopefully we can take care of a few minor issues before our plans become apparent to the wrong parties, however.  I don't know the timetable, but I'm sure it's only a matter of time before I do.  I'm going to have to be a part of it, whether my friends like it or not.
    It's weird, the friends I have.  I grew up having only one real friend, plus my brothers.  That was all.  I really didn't have anything else.  Now, seven, ten years down the line, look at me.  Granted, I want to beat half a squadron of fighter pilots senseless and most of my friends would rather keep secrets from me than have me know exactly everything I know, but I don't think any of us would quite give up what we've got for the world.  I mean, once you get right down to it...we're pretty much all each other's got.  And that's not such a bad thing, I guess.  I like having friends, I just don't like it when they end up on my table.  That's understandable, I guess.  No one likes to see the ones they care about hurt, much less when they're the ones it falls to to make sure that the people they care about live through this one, or that one, simply by medical skill and a helluva lot of luck.
    I got lucky this time.  I just have to hope that our luck won't run out anytime soon.

    And as for those descendents....I guess I'm going to have some, in June.

    The man I once feared is dead.  Reports say it was a massive heart attack that killed him.  It's for the best that everyone believes that.  I'm just happy that I don't have to worry about him finding out about me...about everything that's been hidden, about how the wool was pulled over his eyes, and badly.
    My hand has been asked for, and I accepted the question willingly, with a positive response.  I don't know when things will actually happen, but I would like to lay odds on sooner rather than later -- it's always safer that way.  At least I can hope it is.
    We're going to have a little girl.

    I feel like I'm losing him, even though he's still here.  He's not the man I fell in love with anymore, and I begin to wonder if I can love the man I see before me as much as I did before.  He's so much colder, so much darker -- he's not as nice to be around anymore.  I still love him, but it's so hard now, to be with him, now that his behavior has changed so much.
    I'm not the only one who notices.  Some of our friends are worried, too.  It's just so hard...I don't know what to say or do anymore, either.  I know he still loves me, too, but I'm not sure he realizes he's hurting me, hurting us -- and hurting the family we need to be for the sake of our daughter.
    It's so hard and I don't know what to do anymore.

 

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